I asked a related question about how often you lie, on a daily basis, but I think this is more apropos for today’s general aesthetic.

  • OtherPetard@feddit.nl
    72·
    8 个月前

    I have no interest in misrepresenting myself, I just try to give away as little as possible while still trying to contribute to the conversation.

  • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
    17·
    8 个月前

    Thinking about it, I definitely misrepresent myself online 100% of the time, as I never say who I am. I do say a lot of things, but in a generic sense, enough that it would be hard to pin down who I actually am. I have a deep and irrepressible sense of distrust for the state, for decades, despite what I do for a job. So instead, I have an online persona that does indeed reflect my values, but is separate from the public facing person you might know.

      • can@sh.itjust.works
        4·
        8 个月前

        Yeah, I’ve come to terms with the fact that if I’m going to be this active on a public forum there is this risk. I try not to put anything too identifiable though and nothing that would be too devastating if tied to my real identity. I’m really not that interesting.

    • Zier@fedia.io
      2·
      8 个月前

      Ed, I told you to get of the internet and turn off the light, I’m tired. And if you steal the covers again tonight you are sleeping on the couch for a week. Did you remember to take the trash out? Don’t sigh at me… you know how I hate that. Goodnight Ed.

  • Mister Neon@lemmy.world
    14·
    8 个月前

    If I ever made someone online believe I’m a happy and optimistic person then I apologize for the misunderstanding.

  • AdaAEnglish
    11·
    8 个月前

    Never. I’m perfectly honest and reliable

  • Socsa@sh.itjust.works
    11·
    8 个月前

    Yes, for anyone doxxing me, everything I say on the Internet is true. I am a middle aged lawyer with brown hair and three children.

  • SavvyWolf@pawb.socialEnglish
    11·
    8 个月前

    I’m not actually some pixelated anthro wolf thing. Sorry for ruining the magic.

    Saying dumb shit that I regret later through? Yeah, that’s me irl as well.

  • prime_number_314159@lemmy.world
    10·
    8 个月前

    As the President and CEO of a fortune 500, and a neurosurgeon that does rocket surgery as a side project, there are many people relying on me to be an upstanding member of the community at all times.

    In reality, most of the ways I misrepresent myself are to obscure my identity, and mostly it’s by leaving things out.

  • Canopyflyer@lemmy.worldEnglish
    9·
    8 个月前

    I lie about everything… Even this comment is a lie.

    In all seriousness, I do enough misdirection that it would be difficult to figure out who I am. But not impossible. Once in a while I’ll post something that is completely out of character for me, just to throw off anyone that may actually know me.

    Here is an example of why:

    I have a former coworker fishing for me on Reddit and he is unaware that I no longer post on that site, or even have an account. A friend of mine clued me in to one of former coworker’s posts which mixed a bit of truth in with some massive delusional lies. So once in a while I’ll pull up his Reddit account to see if there is anything I need to send to my lawyer. Yeah, it’s one of those situations. The post I was originally made aware of made my lawyer giddy and he was disappointed that I declined to set him loose. Former Coworker is a narcissistic loser that lives credit card payment to credit card payment anyway. The best way to deal with a narcissist is with indifference.

    So yeah, my posts are true to the point where identifiable information is needed. Then I mis-direct.

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      3·
      8 个月前

      It’s kind asad when you are playing chess while your opponent is playing checkers. King me.

  • Lath@kbin.earth
    9·
    8 个月前

    Does it matter? Anyone will draw whatever conclusion they want from written words.
    Any post made represents a train of thought created in that moment, for that moment.

    We like to overanalyze stuff and inferr suppositions, create entire lifetimes based on fragments of text. But more often than not, there is no hidden meaning, no greater link to map out. Though it’s fun to imagine there is.

    The online medium is fantasy. A separate dimension from reality. A glimpse into past moments that most of us rarely even think of while out there actually living. Shitposts, trolls, memes, bots, insights into the human psyche and so on, all mushed up together where you can’t even tell the true from the false.
    A simple truth is that everyone online is a lie. Whether spurred by anonymity or cowed by social expectations, the online persona is a default mask we craft for ourselves, perhaps even unknowingly.

    Some say it’s who they truly are, free or the debts and responsibilities of real life. But it’s not completely true. Hiding this inner self is part of who we are, though we like to reject it. These posts, these thoughts are pieces of what we need to express, a lashing out at the norms that bound us we do not agree with. Yet they do not represent us, not fully.
    Just as in a sudden moment of pain, we express the emotion through a verbal release of vulgarities, so too are these written declarations the release of that painful constriction society holds over our words and deeds.

    …

    TL;DR: Always.

    • JessicaEnglish
      5·
      8 个月前

      This has some I don’t know kinda vibes going on, and I love it.

      • Lath@kbin.earth
        2·
        8 个月前

        Thank you and I’m sorry. This bit just flowed out on its own and I have little control over the whims of inspiration.
        The great part though is that it’s not something exclusive to suffering artists or talented writers. Anyone can create something of worth, even if only to a few.
        We merely have to let the mind wander and flow, then look back at the trail it left behind and enjoy the result.
        Creativity and imagination should not be stifled, nor worked at a demand. It’s the natural that brings out the greatest smiles.

  • Kaiyoto@lemmy.world
    8·
    8 个月前

    I’ve been sexually harassed so much online that I never correct people when they misgender me on any sort of party chat, especially with video games. I chose an ambiguous username, talk like a bro, have and naturally have deeper voice which only tends to get deeper on the mic. It’s actually really nice to be able to just play video games and be a human being.

    I also put on corporate speak mask when I’m at work. Some days I let it slip and always regret it.

  • emptyother@programming.dev
    8·
    8 个月前

    I don’t do well with lying. Because of childhood trauma. I am an open book. Even online. A boring open book though.

    But I am sometimes a bit confused. Might say stuff I later realize I should have done a second thinking about. But I don’t call it misrepresentation when I believed it myself, even if I later realize my mistake.

  • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
    7·
    8 个月前

    I don’t go out of my way to lie or hide things, but I don’t spread too much either.

    On the other hand, I’ve stopped correcting people who default to everyone online being male.