Firstly, buuuuump! hehehehehehehe

Secondly, so, my trip to enbyness has taken a bit of a circuitous route, right? It took ages to realize that, hey, y’know… maybe I don’t have to be a guy. I can be a girl! Yaaay! Finally free! So I hatched and be’d a girl for a while (… where did the past decade go, please help me get it back). Well, I kindof always expected I’d end up creeping enby-ward at least a bit but recentlish I got to having some feels and it’s been getting to the point where I’m occasionally getting bits of a second dose of that hatchy euphoria. Turns out, I can wear through the gender hangups and start to just be me, right? So, double-yay! Kinda feels like I’m cheating, honestly 😅 Most people only get to hatch zero times, and even lucky trans-critters mostly only get to hatch once. So here I am, delightedly double-dipping discovery, digging into my 'dentity and hoping maybe somecritter around here has a story to share :3 That or I’m just yapping into the void. Even still, maybe I can fan the lingering enbers (harharhar, see what I did there? :D ) of this community!

Also any neat tricks for finding/committing to names/colour schemes/avatars would be nice :3 Actually I should probably just have another poke at making an avatar and just go for it but eep >.<; Triple-eep at making a top-level post 🙀

  • Franzia
    4·
    10 months ago

    I love this post :3 Really cute how you describe hatching twice, thats very creative.

  • Animal PlanetM
    4·
    9 months ago

    Love this post! You have such a fun playful style of writing and it’s a style that I never see on like, reddit for instance. Emojis are really looked down on there and language is expected to be pretty standardized. I love how much fun u have w it :3

    Thanks for sharing your story! :) My partner was binary trans for years before they came out as nonbinary, which far more matches their identity.

    I myself thought that binary trans was the only option when I was in high school so I pushed that egg deep down down down until my early 30s when it cracked open. When I first was thinking about transitioning, the idea of fully going fem just didn’t feel right for me. I feel so grateful to live in a s o c i e t y where it’s more welcomed than in the past.

  • knightly the Sneptaur@pawb.social
    3·
    10 months ago

    Mow!

    Hehee, I made it to my mid-30’s before I realized that only occasionally wearing some falsies wasn’t enough! I’m 7 months into jormome therapy now and it’s been amazing ___

    As for advice, I’m afraid I don’t have much. Presentation is hard! XD

  • thorn@lemmy.world
    2·
    9 months ago

    That is awesome for you. I have loved reclaiming my masculinity since letting go of it. I feel like I’ve just had an everlasting emergence and metamorphosis rather than a singular hatching.

    I wish there was a similar community here, but the vibes over at r/ftmfemininity are emaculate.