Off topic a little but I stop most of my messaging app to notify me. And my life is so much more peaceful.
I told everyone when they connect with me on any messaging app that it’ll take time for me to answer. I’ll read it when I remember to read it, which I do like once or twice a day.
They adapt to that and if it’s really important they’ll call.
While we’re off topic, you should also consider grey-scaling your phone most of the time, only turning it back to color when needed. A lot of psychological trickery goes into icon and notification color to catch you eye, and it’s much less interesting in drab grey
Off topic a little but I stop most of my messaging app to notify me. And my life is so much more peaceful. I told everyone when they connect with me on any messaging app that it’ll take time for me to answer. I’ll read it when I remember to read it, which I do like once or twice a day. They adapt to that and if it’s really important they’ll call.
This is the way.
Its not natural to feel “connected” all the time
smh this mf isn’t bathing in the source
While we’re off topic, you should also consider grey-scaling your phone most of the time, only turning it back to color when needed. A lot of psychological trickery goes into icon and notification color to catch you eye, and it’s much less interesting in drab grey