• jahashar@sopuli.xyz
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    11 months ago

    And even the rare case of transition regret, it’s usually because 1. lack of peer group, 2. social condemnation and 3. your family now hates you.

    Not because of the procedure, but because of the assholes around you. (This by one older Swedish study on the subject).

    It’s a literal miracle cure. Any sane doctor would jump for it.

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      11 months ago

      Even when it is the procedure, it is generally due to poor results, not the decision to have the surgery to begin with.

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        11 months ago

        Worth noting that particular subreddit appears to be pretty heavily astroturfed. To the point where some detransitioners created r/actualdetrans to get away from the TERFs.

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        11 months ago

        It’s unlikely the people who detransition because of it would be active on a detrans subreddit, because they would still consider themselves trans, and would instead be in trans subreddits for support.

        The three reasons the other commenter mentioned was taken from studies done on the subject.

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            11 months ago

            I’m sorry, but if you think that there aren’t huge portions of the trans population who have no support system, then it doesn’t really feel possible to have a meaningful discussion about this with you.

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                I’m not saying it implies that. I’m saying that trans people and established research both say that. Your minimal experience with one of the detrans subreddits is not more substantial of a source than first hand accounts and peer reviewed papers.

                Did you spend substantial time in /r/detrans and /r/actualdetrans? Were you aware of drama around when that split happened? Discussed it in the other trans communities on the sites? Because right now, your comments make it seem like you’re a passerby who has popped into a trans community and tried to say that your interactions with one community known for astroturfing are more meaningful than decades of research.