• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    Gen-X here. I would like to know who in our generation decided to let their kids (Gen-Z) raid their closet. Yesterday alone I saw multiple teen girls wearing 90’s era mommy pants and two, TWO, girls wearing MC Hammer parachute pants!!! Neither of these was ever cool!

    Millennials. If our kids give you grief, just remember that they thought it was a good idea to bring back parachute pants.

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      The last pics or videos I saw of everything “cool” (VIPs, gen Z stuff like interviews, festival pics,…) felt like old 90 stuff. I really thought they were old but no, it was stuff from about 1-2 weeks ago. Why is stuff like hair styles and make up also the same as it was years ago?

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      I kinda miss the bell bottom revival of the early 2000’s. Not the late 90’s “equilateral triangle from the knees down” look our big sisters did; I always liked the “just enough bell bottom that the tip of her shoes poke out.” I always thought that was a cute look.

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      I literally saw a 12 year old the other day wearing a “Boyz in tha Hood” shirt, like, do you even know what movies are?

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    Why would I care what teenagers think?

    Haha losers I can get into a bar. Go drink your warm keystone while hiding from your parents. Make sure you make curfew.

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      This is the true take lol

      Frankly, being seen as uncool by teenagers is a good thing. Modern teenagers think people like Logan Paul are cool (not that we were any better when we were teens, but that just furthers my point)

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    There’s a trend of elder millennials shitting on Gen Z because Gen Z is doing what all kids and young people do: rebel against their elders. And it’s the most cringe thing I’ve ever seen. Eddy Burbank had a video on it a while ago and holy crap. Just stop, y’all. The poster in the pic has the right idea.

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      Businesses care very much so they can extract their and their parents’ money from them. Sadly, it’s working very well, fellowkids posts mocking cringy corporate ads are the exception and not the rule.

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    gen z here. I genuinely think most millennials are cool asf. y’all took the brunt of the hate from older generations for us. I just hope we can pay it back somehow in the long run

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      While I appreciate the sentiment, I honestly think us Millennials just did our time in the barrel and now it’s your turn. My evidence: I use Firefox, by default it congregates a bunch of “news” articles from around the web (via Pocket, I think. Whatever the fuck Pocket is) and here’s a headline from Elle I’m looking at on my other monitor as I type: “Is Gen Z Killing Vintage Fashion?” You are The Demographic now, so there’s going to be about 15 years of exactly that bullshit to roll your eyes at.

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        I’m so glad I’m not being blamed for the decline of a shitty industry no one else took part in either, otherwise it wouldn’t have failed.

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          Yeah, now it’s more like “are gen Z killing X industry?”

          me: “God I fucking hope we are”

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      From everything I’ve seen, you will. Just keep working for what’s right and good.

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    My neighbor’s 13 year old thinks I’m cool as shit because i make them loads of baked goodies. Cakes, cookies, granola, cupcakes, or whatever I’m baking for my weekly challenges.

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      Ummm that sounds like you are cool as shit.

      Won’t you be my neighbor?

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    Of the list of things I’m struggling with as I’m getting older, this is pretty fuckin low on the list.

    Like, I understand the adults in my life as a teenager and why they didn’t really give a shit about what I thought about certain things. I was young and stupid and didn’t know shit about shit.

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    The teens are correct, I am not cool. To quote Abe Simpson, “I used to be with It, but then they changed what It was. Now what I’m with isn’t It, and what is It is weird and scary to me. It’ll happen to you.”

    Now I think I’m slightly younger than Abe was in that scene, but I’m not yet at a place where teenagers are “weird and scary” to me. Juvenoia hasn’t set in yet. I’m definitely out of touch, like I don’t know what bands the kids are listening to these days, slang is starting to leave me behind. But I think I feel okay with the kids these days growing up in their own decade, which a lot of adults seem to struggle with. I’m going to try to hang onto that.

    As for their opinion of me? Yeah sure. I’m a 36 year old homeowner that spent my free time last week cutting back my azaleas and canning a year’s supply of homemade jelly. I have a shelf where I keep my carpet cleaning supplies. Any teenager who thinks I’m not cool is pretty much correct. And I’m fine with that.

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      Gen X has to come up with something other than lawn care. Lawns are for boomers.

      Gen X is too cool/apathetic to care about lawns. The issue is that Gen X isn’t really trying to gatekeep anything.

      If I had to tell the boomers or millennials or gen z to “stay off my bandwidth” I’d probably be more like “ok, suit your self, I have no shits to give”.

      While there are plenty of issues where I’d support the younger generations against the older, being cool isn’t one. None of them have any idea, and neither did we.

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        Gen X has to come up with something other than lawn care. Lawns are for boomers.

        How about: “step aside, I can’t see the TV.”

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      Pssh, youre genx. It’s not like you’ve had the time to use your lawn for anything fun. It’s not the kids fault your entire generation got sequestered off to middle-management purgatory.

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    Despite having been one less than a decade ago, I definitely refuse to keep up with the trends as I feel most of them are either dangerous (tide pod challenge), illegal (property damage in your school bathrooms), absolutely tone-deaf (all those people pretending to have xyz disorder because it’s quirky), or just flat out dumb (think fortnite and such if that’s still even a thing and the slang as well). The slang they use feels like a foreign language and I refuse to learn it just like I did with a lot of slang from my time.

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      I feel most of them are either dangerous (tide pod challenge)

      You say most and then cite only the most overblown, ridiculous example. I haven’t seen a single death actually linked to the tide pod challenge, it was just a meme that a select few idiots took too far and got hospitalized. That happens with literally any popular trend. Don’t forget millennials had plenty of “dangerous” trends (planking, off the top of my head) that the mainstream media blew out of proportion.

      illegal (property damage in your school bathrooms)

      This has been happening to school bathrooms for a very long time, it just wasn’t on social media prior. I remember a trend in my area of kids fucking up their school bathrooms.

      absolutely tone-deaf (all those people pretending to have xyz disorder because it’s quirky)

      So millennials didn’t do all sorts of incredibly tone-deaf impressions and jokes back in the day?

      or just flat out dumb (think fortnite and such if that’s still even a thing and the slang as well)

      “Fortnite dumb” like okay. Fortnite isn’t dumb, it’s just not made for you. I don’t enjoy it, but I love playing it with my nieces and nephews, and while again it’s not my speed, it’s definitely not dumb.

      The slang they use feels like a foreign language and I refuse to learn it just like I did with a lot of slang from my time.

      If you just hate using slang that doesn’t mean gen z slang is dumb, just means ur a hipster.

      There’s plenty of totally enjoyable, innocent gen z trends as well as some obnoxious ones, gen z slang is just an evolution of millennial slang, and gen z are more savvy in some areas and less so in others than millennials. But ofc ppl are gonna see what they want.

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      absolutely tone-deaf (all those people pretending to have xyz disorder because it’s quirky)

      You had me on most of these, but oof

      One of the worst things you could do to someone that actually has a disorder is to disregard it because you think their pretending, I’ll give the benefit of the doubt thanks.

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        I’m mostly referring to the people who actually do fake it. I also tend to give the benefit of the doubt, but I’ve seen various cases online of people actively faking it for clout. People who got called out on their bullshit.

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      Period. Zoomer slang is dog water, no cap.

      You bet. Zoomer slang is awful, I will not lie to you.

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    I think it’s easier to not really care about what is or isn’t cool to teens.