It could just be a fetish, but do you want it to be?

  • First Majestic CometM
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    2 days ago

    I just like wearing cute clothes and having long hair. I don’t get turned on by it (I don’t really get turned on by anything really). Not a fetish, but I also don’t have gender dysphoria, I just like being cute.

    • TotallynotJessicaOP
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      1 day ago

      nothing says you need it to be more than you want. so long as you’re not disappointed about it

  • Owl@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    wanting to try out or even fully be the opposite gender =/= gender dysphoria

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      Wanting to fully be another gender is all it really takes to be trans. Even if you can live the rest of your life as the gender you are now, you could still be trans.

      If you would be happier living (sometimes, to some extent, or all the time) as another gender, you’re likely experiencing gender dysphoria via the absence of gender euphoria. It is possible to not notice the weight one carries until after it is removed.

      That’s part of what’s so horrific about it; you might just not know how good life can be until you get a taste of it. That’s certainly how it was for me.

  • Smorty [she/her]
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    2 days ago

    nu. nu. nu. nu. nu.

    i dun wan fetish!!! >;(

    nu! nu! nu! nu! nu!

    ew! no thank u!

    nevr ew agn! NEVR! EW!

    u kno whad? im so upset, i talk Oxford pons engish now.

    NO! this is AWFUL. I HATE every second in which I’m horny (and thus uncomfortable)!

    Like - NO! NO! NO!

    NO

    Never. Just take that away, just like - just like kill my fertility, I couldn’t care less.

    I would almost kill to have that awful disgusting terrible miserable part of my body removed… I would kill… Just not humans… Or myself if I get reborn in some not awful way.

    NO! No thank you. I say no to fetish. I say no to horny. I say no to alcohol. I say no to shooting games. I say no to uncomfortable things which make me feel bad things.

    NO.

    No it’s not a fetish.

    It is not. A fetish. No.

    No.

    No.

    No.

    NO.

    No. This is not right. I feel sick. Not cool sick. I feel sick sick.

    When will this alien sickness leave me…

  • Jessica
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    2 days ago

    I told myself it was a fetish for years.