• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Ngl, some of us cis folk hold back because we aren’t sure if happiness is wanted as a response.

    Now me? I’m a dumbass with little or no filter when I don’t have prep time, so the first person I ever knew that got top surgery and told me about it ahead of time, my response was “no shit? About damn time.”

    Like, c’mon dude, show a little damn restraint before opening your yap, maybe read the room before responding like that. What if the dude had been scared and looking for medical advice or something, and now he’s worried about opening up about that fear. Luckily, it was the right response, but it could have been boneheadly inappropriate.

    I’d pretend I’d never be that thick again, but I don’t like lying.

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    2 months ago

    i wan dck gon… n alsuu evl throat boll gon… ;(

    evl boll hurts. its poki n i rlli … it jus hurts ;(

    it looks ew n it sounds ew ;(

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    2 months ago

    I wish we could trade cause I really want my own tits.

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    2 months ago

    It’s actually really like this, having people tell me that I was brave was so strange. I felt more brave in every step leading to surgery but that? it was Tuesday