• erotador
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    i know just what you mean, i asked my gf to cover me in hickeys the other day, she gave me one and went back to playing doom :/

  • Of the Air (cele/celes)
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    We understand this might be a joke but in case it’s worth saying: Nobody owes anyone physical intimacy. If you think they do, you might be entitled.

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      thanks for sayin this bc decade ago now had a woman i was dating try and blame me for not wanting to be going steady by doing this type of thing…young autistic me had no words to convey the audhd hyperfocus and poly tendencies I was feeling so misunderstood about.

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        Sure, we are happy to! We have had our fair share of similar situations. But we learned and now we are much better off in relationships with people who love us for us and not for what we can provide them with.

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    7 days ago

    why is it so painful to be interrupted when focusing?

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    Wheeeeee painful loneliness depression spiral.

    Anxiety and trust issues keep me from even thinking about starting a relationship but it still fuckin hurts.

  • luciole (he/him)@beehaw.org
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    Having you forcibly pulled from The Zone by some colleague knocking at your office door to make sure you received their email is obviously painful, but this makes me realize that being forcibly pulled from The Zone in ANY way whatsoever is equally painful.

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    I used to know a couple who gradually grew apart. It got to the point where she was laying on the floor naked, and he’d still rather pay attention to his video game. She is smart, funny, and hot as hell.

    She’s happily married now. I wonder if he’s happy, or regrets letting her get away.

    • TotallynotJessicaOPM
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      honestly, he might. might be too ace to ever be happy with her. just because she was a good catch for many doesn’t mean they were compatible

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    blockbench to blender dual screen pipeline spotted (just like me fr)