my friend always thinks she’s better than everyone at everything. no matter what i do, I’m useless and horrible at everything to her, and she ditches me because I’m nerdy and not the most popular and because I don’t like sports. she hangs out with the popular girls and talks about me to them and why they should exclude me if I ask to hang out with them.

most of the time, though, she’s nice. it’s only usually in gym class, but it’s been happening a lot lately.

she’s usually nice to me and hangs out regardless of sports or my social status, but like I said, she’s been really rude lately.

she also pushes me and tells me to get out of her face but then says it’s “just a joke”…

  • murmurations@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 day ago

    Friendship is a series of actions.
    A person who pushes you when you don’t want them to is acting in a way incongruent with friendship.
    A person who assesses you as useless and horrible is acting in a way incongruent with friendship.
    A person who convinces others to alienate you is acting in a way incongruent with friendship.
    If a relationship is in a stage where you are regularly thinking whether its benefits outweigh its costs, it may be healthy to take a step back.

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    (Was someone mean to you on SDF? Your rant was gone before I could reply)