Remember, you’re always worth more than a fetish <3

  • jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org
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    Fuck. This one hurts. This is mostly the reason why I don’t have a partner, and never have.

  • sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz
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    I’m sorry to come across as ignorant, but exactly is a “chaser”? Googling “femcel chaser” didn’t really…clarify anything…

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      It refers to people who “chase” after trans people, but are only interested in the trans part (and usually only sexually) and not the actual person. It’s very objectifying.

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          And for additional context, femcel communities often have lots of trans women in them, probably something about trans people being stigmatized, perceived as ugly, etc. - we are seen as losers, have difficulty finding sexual partners, generally struggle with mental health, and so are natural candidates for identifying with femcels.

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              lol, yes - not a coincidence the femcel meme community on a trans server is filled with trans women 😆 probably also important context

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      Someone already gave you a good answer but I thought I’d chime in with some word association–its the same vibe as someone with a fetish for a certain race