Hai! I’m new-ish here. I’ve known for a bit I’m trans, but barely started anything substantial really. I’m easing into it, but I’ve had this thing stuck in my mind recently.
Whats something relatively small or cheap/easy that helps make you feel girl? I have a few loungey clothes and stuff and been working on body hair removal but I’m looking for something… Else? I’m not sure what. Just thought this could be a good place for ideas or advice.
I’m just looking for new easy ideas that might help me feel more ‘at home’? Idk I wanna be a comfy chill relaxed girl.
wearing a bra, even with nothing for it to support was huge for me. love the snug and less exposed feeling i have when im wearing it. sports bras are easy and stealthy
uhm - helluuu!
i wanna kno if u maybe have some ones to recommend >~<
i don’t like it when the back is all open but it seems like most sports bras go that route ~
I started out with these: https://a.co/d/aiW60Ry
Then moved to these ones: https://a.co/d/fFftKPP since its easier to stuff socks in them to go stealth a bit more in public lol
I really like the look of the second one
those ones are so adorable and cover a lot, can definitely suggest them personally
I can also recommend a tube bra for the same reason. No cups or pads makes them inconspicuous and really comfortable, but less great if you’re getting pokey or sensitive – fine for lounging around in, though.
I actually have been thinking about like bralettes for a bit but just too afraid to actually do it, you know? Like I feel embarrassed, even though I know there’s no reason too, but that’s a whole other story.
That’s just self-doubt. You have my permission to ignore it and go buy a bra. You deserve it <3
take the leap and go for it! i sent some suggestions in another comment here if you want to take a look. they really are the key to me feeling comfortable in my own body these days, i can’t go out without it