• Slovene@feddit.nl
    41·
    6 days ago

    That was in The X files episode Gender Bender. Everytime they had sex with someone they turned into the opposite gender. Except all the sex partners died afterwards.

    • FairycorePhoebe
      5·
      6 days ago

      NGL, this was by far the worst episode of that show that I’ve seen. It kinda ruined my binge watching of the show for the first time and I didn’t watch any more for a while. There was a lot of causal transphobia that I wasn’t expecting. I’m aware that it wasn’t specifically about trans people but the vibes were not good.

  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
    32·
    6 days ago

    I’m afab nb and had a casual encounter with a straight male without explaining my gender. He was shitty about consent and I do take solace in the fact that I queered him without his knowledge.

    • Iceblade@lemmy.world
      12·
      6 days ago

      So you met someone who was shitty about consent, and decided to also be shitty about consent?

      Wow!

      • Strawberry
        20·
        6 days ago

        You didn’t tell your assaulter you are trans while he was assaulting you! You’re the real villain here!

        • psud@aussie.zone
          14·
          6 days ago

          They don’t imply there was assault. They call the hookup ‘casual’ with poor consent that’s common enough, too many men expect to be able to do as they please

          Obviously they were upset enough by it to gain psychic revenge by not telling them they don’t identify as a girl, but they don’t suggest they weren’t up for it

          • Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
            6·
            6 days ago

            CW assault

            Tbh I didn’t even think to pause everything to sit him down and explain what it means to be non binary. It became kinda clear from talking that he thought gender=genitals and at that point I kinda wanted out, but he was pushy and persistent and I felt unsafe to tell him about either my gender or wanting to leave. Kinda just froze, idk how else to explain it. And he intentionally stealthed me, too.

            • i_dont_want_to
              5·
              5 days ago

              I am so sorry that happened to you. You remember the term “fight or flight” response? They have added “freeze” to the mix.

              I don’t know if you need to hear this, but your reaction was normal and it doesn’t mean you deserved it. It sounds like you’re trying to reclaim your autonomy in response to something traumatic, and that’s ok. Sorry someone tried to make you feel shitty for it.

            • psud@aussie.zone
              3·
              5 days ago

              That sucks. I’m sorry for you. I’m also sorry I prompted you to recall it in more detail

            • Strawberry
              3·
              5 days ago

              It’s a damn shame you have to recount this to a stranger on the Internet who’s being a creepy asshole

  • psud@aussie.zone
    14·
    6 days ago

    Surely the “victim” would be made bi, having started the event with a partner of opposite gender and finished with one of the opposite. Sort of a virtual threesome - just like a real threesome but without an actual third person

    Quotes around ‘victim’ as they probably didn’t notice, unless OOP was prepared and brought a prosthetic penis and wanted to be top

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
    15·
    6 days ago

    No, no, it’s only gay if you ram your cock into them. Anything up until then is just foreplay, and ain’t no gay in foreplay.

    • Walk_blesseDEnglish
      3·
      6 days ago

      As another user pointed out, anon may have ended up pegging his boyfriend.

  • Taleya@aussie.zoneEnglish
    4·
    5 days ago

    Ok but in the middle of - you’re pretty much just gonna have to do anal because mid PIV penetration his dick is now somewhere that doesn’t exist. Which is another problem altogether