• bdonvr@thelemmy.club
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    8 hours ago

    I mean it’s definitely not a statement of right or wrong to suggest that taking a new, further step is an escalation above the previous situation.

    • Coriza@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      I think the problem is what you consider an escalation. If someone slaps you in the face, you slapping them back is considered an escalation or proportional response? I think most would consider framing it as an escalation as a type of shifting the blame or changing the frame of events that minimize the responsibilities of the the guy that first slapped you.

    • SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      My dude, if I come to your house and start punching you in the face and you start punching back, are you now escalating the conflict? No. We’re already fucking brawling, and I started it.

      • bdonvr@thelemmy.club
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        2 hours ago

        Sure, going from being a helpless victim to one fighting back is an escalation. Isn’t always a bad thing?