• Hextic
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    I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account.

      • @charliespider@lemmy.ca
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        Claiming that someone’s homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.

        It’s also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.

        • LemmyLefty
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          Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection.

        • @WarmSoda@lemm.ee
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          I get what you’re saying.
          But usually it’s really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.

          • @WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world
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            i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay

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                  Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize

                  That’s embarrassing

                • @Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net
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                  no you’re not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it’s screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.

        • @duh@lemmy.world
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          Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not… looks like he’s hiding.

        • @uriel238
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          Um, I’d argue that it’s blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset.

          If gay was truly okay, and we didn’t have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows.

  • @Lxrduy
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    10910 months ago

    “He generally prefers me to my husband” Whoo boy, I wonder why

    • @Badtouchspez@lemm.ee
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      She provides baby food. Why wouldn’t the baby prefer her more. Heck I’ll hang out with someone more if they gave me food.

  • @KeyserSoze
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    I am straight, and I have to ask: Are we okay?

    • 6daemonbag
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      The husbands of some of my acquaintances are exactly like this. While I’m generally repulsed by the term Low Value Male, these are the types of men that I think fit the bill. Manly homophobes crippled by their ingrained toxic masculinity

    • HornyOnMain [she/her]
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      Reading the post like: internet-delenda-est

      Even if this isn’t real there 100% are loads of people who actually think like this

  • @QuantumField@lemmy.ml
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    4210 months ago

    Kid put a banana in his mouth. Yeah kids put everything in their mouths! Be glad it’s food and not random carpet lint.

    • @WarmSoda@lemm.ee
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      Exactly. And everyone knows if a kid puts carpet in his mouth he’s a god damn lesbe-ann.

      • Bizarroland
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        That must be where I went wrong. I put carpet in my mouth and a banana in my ass

  • @nonbinarytwink
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    Ah yes, my childhood. Too bad they failed to genderize me

  • Jo Miran
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    2710 months ago

    I genuinely feel sad for people that love in such fear and anger. It sounds exhausting.

    • Dirk Darkly
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      Only a gay baby would feel actual love towards a parent, especially if it’s their mom.