You can still get the hair and fit! I always see these “unrealistic transition goals” and I’m like, “you know you can do that look without expecting you’ll be as hot as a cartoon or model, right?”
It might even be that the look could never fit your vibe, but there will still be other looks that would work amazingly. I compare myself to others too; we all do it. Even super hot people compare themselves unfairly. It’s just how we think about our own appearance by default.
Whenever I feel that way, I try to remember what it was like to hate literally everything about myself. If past me could see current me in the mirror, even though I’m still pre-HRT, she’d probably cry over seeing herself for the first time. I’m still motivated to look better, only now I don’t feel hopeless because I appreciate what does work. This isn’t easy at all, as you need to recognize and think critically about your own thoughts. Meditation helps, but it never comes naturally.
i mean sure but i dont think the picasso look is really that realistic haha, i mean i guess you can use facepaint, but also ENA’s body is like made out of shapes, her hair has angles, like thats not really achievable. its mostly a joke anyway.
I mean without the Picasso skin. That outfit isn’t absurd and would look cute. I thought this wasn’t unique skill, but I can translate art styles like these into a realistic equivalent. She’s just wearing a black skirt and suspenders, with a button up t-shirt, black socks, and a hair bow. She has straightened hair with bangs, but it isn’t too elaborate. That part of her look isn’t an unrealistic goal at all! You’d look plenty cute in that :3
You can still get the hair and fit! I always see these “unrealistic transition goals” and I’m like, “you know you can do that look without expecting you’ll be as hot as a cartoon or model, right?”
It might even be that the look could never fit your vibe, but there will still be other looks that would work amazingly. I compare myself to others too; we all do it. Even super hot people compare themselves unfairly. It’s just how we think about our own appearance by default.
Whenever I feel that way, I try to remember what it was like to hate literally everything about myself. If past me could see current me in the mirror, even though I’m still pre-HRT, she’d probably cry over seeing herself for the first time. I’m still motivated to look better, only now I don’t feel hopeless because I appreciate what does work. This isn’t easy at all, as you need to recognize and think critically about your own thoughts. Meditation helps, but it never comes naturally.
but what if my unrealistic transition goal is literally a non-human form?
jk
kinda ^^’
i mean sure but i dont think the picasso look is really that realistic haha, i mean i guess you can use facepaint, but also ENA’s body is like made out of shapes, her hair has angles, like thats not really achievable. its mostly a joke anyway.
I mean without the Picasso skin. That outfit isn’t absurd and would look cute. I thought this wasn’t unique skill, but I can translate art styles like these into a realistic equivalent. She’s just wearing a black skirt and suspenders, with a button up t-shirt, black socks, and a hair bow. She has straightened hair with bangs, but it isn’t too elaborate. That part of her look isn’t an unrealistic goal at all! You’d look plenty cute in that :3
well id like to be an abstract picasso shape person, that’d be pog but i get your point ^^’