Men dream as male character, women dream as female character how do trans persons dream then? Trans men as men?? Trans women as women??

  • @audiomodder
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    71 month ago

    It’s their way of saying that trans women aren’t women and trans men aren’t men. It’s less of a technicality thing and more of a “I’m going to be skeptical about this person’s intentions until I see more”

    • @Kit
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      151 month ago

      That doesn’t make any sense. How does a space change the meaning? Especially after the words have been widely used in the trans community for decades?

      • @shneancy@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        it changed its meaning because bad actors decided to use that term specificlly, to imply that “trans[gender]” is a third sort of option (that is not part of the “normal” or “real” genders) and also the biggest enemy of “real [gender]” and especially “real women”. The same way “transsexual” became a slur, the same way “retarded” or “special needs” became slurs/insults. If you say someone’s name with enough hatred in your voice enough times it’ll become an insult as well.

        it’s stupid i know, and we should reclaim it at one point, but for now it’s a dogwhistle for transphobes, at least in online spaces

        • @Kit
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          51 month ago

          That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I’m a transman and will continue to call myself such.

          • @shneancy@lemmy.world
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            21 month ago

            alright, i’m not judging you? I’m just making you aware of the current connotations of using that term