• aleats
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    6 months ago

    Nah, some people just really suck at being assertive (and/or have really bad social anxiety).

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      6 months ago

      I feel like if somebody has horrible social anxiety, your partner complaining for you, in front of you, probably ain’t much better. I know I would find the situation embarrassing as hell.

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        6 months ago

        That’s true, but sometimes I definitely need a little push from someone in situations like this.