I feel that I should preface this by warning questioning people that looking for signs is generally not a good way to find out if you’re trans. Different people experience being trans in different ways.

Thank you lady_scarecrow for the above disclaimer. Very good advice ❤️

  • Semivir [he/him, she/her]
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    7 months ago

    Oh thank you for this! I definitely want to actively explore further, and I don’t really think of it as gatekeeping myself behind the right label.

    It’s mostly me being conscious and afraid of making decisions that have a lasting impact, like coming out (even if it’s just about the fact that I’m figuring things out). Physical changes that can’t easily be reversed are still a ways away.

    But I will try to take your advice to heart and allow myself to take some steps. There’s always the option of chickening out, right?