I know you’re out there! If you’re part of /c/TransLater, make yourself heard!
Maybe some questions will help.
Tell us your name and where are you from? Maybe a bit about yourself
What do you enjoy spending your time on?
How have things been going as you navigate the combination of “Trans” and “Later” in your life?
What’s a question you have for other folk in the sub?
For what it’s worth, I started at 41, and that was 7 years ago. We tend to start later at our age, because that’s what happens when you grew up in the transphobic environment we grew up in, with no visible role models or examples of people who had walked our path before us. Undoing a lifetime of that is a process that takes time. Even self acceptance doesn’t just remove decades of indoctrination. What it does is let you make a start on undoing it, which it sounds like you’re doing :)
I finally feel comfortable in my skin :)