Personally, for me it’s the idea that just because you don’t experience something (dysphoria, or being a gender other than what society expects of you) that doesn’t mean those experiences aren’t valid.
I get sooo tired of the response “I just don’t understand! I love being my AGAB! Why can’t you just get over it?”
I wish they’d listen to our voices instead of infantalize or demonize us. We’re just people, not all bad, not all good, just like everybody else. Just happen to be trans.