• Ms. ArmoredThirteen
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      24 months ago

      Got here before me lol. Seriously though it’s ridiculous. I basically feel like I have to pee 100% of the time and I’m just guessing if I actually have to go or not. Can’t wait for surgery and not having to be on spiro anymore

      • @EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted
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        24 months ago

        Yeah, that sounds about right. Lol.

        And if you can get surgery, I’m really happy for you! I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get it. It’s just too expensive… :'(

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          24 months ago

          Assuming my life doesn’t collapse again like it did last year, I have surgery in June. I’m lucky to have the job and the insurance that I do. Even with really good insurance I’m dropping thousands of dollars regularly and I haven’t even gotten to the surgery part it’s madness x.x

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              So because insurance and hospitals are a mess I have to be in a self pay agreement. The theory goes I cough up about $45k, do surgery, they bill insurance, insurance refunds the hospital, then the hospital refunds me. What might happen is insurance gives the hospital the middle finger and I’m out a down payment on a house worth of money then I get to sue everybody and see what happens. In hindsight I probably should have just done medical tourism but I didn’t have the capacity to figure that out at the time and now it’s a risk to my life if I go much longer without surgery

              The other costs are flying out of state for large volume hair removal because I can locally only get like 1-2 hours a month since everyone is booked out. Also needing constant therapy because everyone needs increasingly specific therapists letters for me to get anywhere. Finally because I’m getting surgery out of state I need housing for a month so that’ll be like $2-5k depending where I can find

              It’s all madness

              • @EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted
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                14 months ago

                Yeah, trans rights in the US are an absolute joke.

                Still, I’m happy that you even have $45k in the first place. That’s one of the reasons why I hate reimbursements. Sure, the net cost might be zero, but you still gotta have the money in the first place.