• chumbalumber
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    10 months ago

    Unfortunately my arsehole doesn’t take kindly to being bothered unlubed.

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      10 months ago

      Pro tip, get some solid coconit oil, melt it into ice cube trays, and wait for it to solidify again. Then, all you have to do is pop a cube in and wait a few minutes for your body heat to melt it and you’re good to go

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            10 months ago

            I think the intent is to leave the ice cube tray at room temp

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                10 months ago

                I mean, you do you. If you’re into that sort of thing a cold water enema would probably do the same thing better though

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                  Well now I’m just not sure that’s true, and it certainly depends on what you’re going for. It stands to reason that cold water in an enema has a lot more surface area and will thus dissipate heat much more quickly than a very cold cube of coconut oil, especially if it’s cold in the center.

                  Plus an enema won’t provide lubrication, if that’s what is desired.

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                    10 months ago

                    I just meant from a “I like the sensation of putting cold stuff inside me” standpoint

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          It freezes at room temp so you can wait for it to freeze out on the counter, or if you’re in a hurry use the fridge for extra speed but not freezing temps. Don’t need to keep it in the fridge tho

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          10 months ago

          So you made coconut-oil ice cubes for sexlube and then never used them? Did I stumble into /r/deadbedrooms?

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            10 months ago

            I just assumed they popped one in their mouth and applied it orally as needed instead.

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              10 months ago

              Nah, you put it in your butt lol

              No need for lube shooters, easy way to get a bunch of lube in there easy. Overkill for regular anal but if you’re using large/deep toys it’s very nice

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                10 months ago

                I meant the person who said they did everything except put it in their butt.

                Though now the thought just occurred to me that you can do this with those novelty ice cube trays as well. Bullet shaped ones for easy insertion, skull shaped ones for Halloween, whatever floats your boat.

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          10 months ago

          Wait, if you don’t put the cubes in your butt then how are you using them lol

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          10 months ago

          If you like your lube fizzy I’m not gonna judge

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          9 months ago

          Coconut oil is fine with platinum cure silicone toys. Silicone based lubes will fuck em up though