• @SkyeStarfall
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    18 months ago

    Well, fair, I get that about food. It is negative for your health when consumed in excess after all.

    As for the porn, well, I guess that makes sense, even if I’m still very much like “if it doesn’t hurt anybody, why feel shame? Even if people consider it weird? They don’t need to know.”

    • @dustyData@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      For some people the shame is part of getting off. Without shame there’s no kink. Sex is complex.

      • @SkyeStarfall
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        8 months ago

        Well, sure, humiliation and such is a thing, but that also won’t apply to outside the scene/play nor is it a very mainstream thing.