I came across this recently and thought it was a super interesting and thorough examination of “the closet” or “coming out” of it.

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    1 year ago

    I’ve been told several times “ah yeah I had kinda guessed” as a bi dude. Literally no idea how you could tell, considering I look the same as before I figured myself out.

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      Our environment has those things figured out more quickly than we ourselves.

      They look from the outside in and a closet is easy to spot. But inside the closet it is dark.

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        1 year ago

        I mean yeah but. I am the most standard skinny white dude.

        That said I have literally 0 gaydar so.