First off, I am still relatively new here, and I hope I don’t offend anyone with any of these questions, but some things I’ve been wondering lately. And that I’m probably going to have to work through before too long.

Same sex/gender parents, do your children call both of you the same or different names?(mom/dad etc.)

Trans* parents, if you had children before you came out, did what they call you change? I’ve only been aware of one instance of this situation and the kids still called her dad.

  • Blahaj_BlastOP
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    1 year ago

    I think I’m going to end up with that attitude on multiple things, unfortunately. 😓

    Step 1 is probably coming out autistic, which I fully expect to be meet with the classic “you don’t seem autistic” said to the person conditioned tonot present that way.

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      Good luck with it! Hopefully you don’t get the “autistic people can’t be trans” response. I sorta fell into that thinking when I was younger, but more in a “I must be missing something” since I knew I didn’t get gender as a whole. Unfortunately too many people are willing to weaponize their ignorance instead of just admitting they don’t understand something.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah… Til literally yesterday, I did not know that was a thing 😓