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- fediverselore@lemmy.ca
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- cross-posted to:
- fediverselore@lemmy.ca
On Blahaj and 196 - Hexbear
hexbear.netDue to multiple factors, such as unaddressed ableist removals
[https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3df0e4c7-bb64-4c00-bbdb-5c753018895c.jpeg?format=webp]
from the /c/196 moderators, defense of chasers
[https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/97e9abd7-e8be-499e-8db7-7a7d5d1e2762.webp],
no-quarter rules regarding our users
[https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/8dc37487-d36b-4a55-9519-c3f8bb4fcae6.png],
leakage of good-faith DMs from our admin team [https://hexbear.net/post/361826],
and a general lack of initiative to punish these behaviors, we have come to the
conclusion that the 196 community on lemmy.blahaj.zone has made the fediverse an
unsafe space for our queer, disabled, neurodivergent, non-western, and other
marginalized comrades on this forum, and we will be defederating from
lemmy.blahaj.zone until we can be confident that this will not continue to be an
issue. We have attempted to make good-faith parley with both the instance admin
and the comm moderators, but we've reached a point which we feel that until
these behaviors are addressed by instance administration, we can no longer
continue to federate in good-faith while our users are being actively
invalidated by a small-but-vocal portion of the forum. Once we are confident
that these behaviors have ceased and are unlikely to continue, we are
more-than-happy to refederate in the name of queer solidarity. Thanks for
bearing with us :07:
One of them made a post on Egg_irl with Astolfo which seems to be almost saying that they think Femboys and GNC are just trans girls in denial. Really didn’t sit well with me since I know that that kind of think is very hurtful to Femboys and has been very hurtful to me as well as an Agender.
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I just looked and Hexbear seems to be back up but they now have a blocked list and lemmy.blahaj.zone is on it. Seems they defederated from us.
All is forgiven 😉
OH whew thank you, I thought it was just my VPN that had gotten blocked. I wasn’t able to see any of the hexbear links.
Uninvolved 3rd party, but I just wanna commend your thoughtfulness here
iirc, deleting the post from hexbear would not have done anything, defederation affects any interaction with blahaj
At the time it was still federated with our site, not anymore though, lemmy.blahaj.zone is now their first entry on the block list.
I had a blahaj person make a similar response to a message of mine a few weeks ago, before hexbear was even on the radar. I just rolled my eyes and may have sent some sort of “wow, what a dumb take” response or something.