• @Xtallll
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    10 months ago

    They have a very different view of what constitutes an unsafe space, for the last day or so every time I saw a username with pronouns my whole body would tighten up anticipating some randomly aggressive attack post. I hate that they made me feel that way about something that should be good. I will not miss them.

    • First Majestic Comet
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      4010 months ago

      One of them made a post on Egg_irl with Astolfo which seems to be almost saying that they think Femboys and GNC are just trans girls in denial. Really didn’t sit well with me since I know that that kind of think is very hurtful to Femboys and has been very hurtful to me as well as an Agender.

      • GarfGirl [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        [I got a bot to automatically delete all my comments over 1 month old so you can’t see this comment anymore]

        • AdaMA
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          1810 months ago

          Removed at your request

        • First Majestic Comet
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          10 months ago

          Edit: hexbear is currently down so I can’t, I’ll remove the post as soon as hexbear comes back online

          I just looked and Hexbear seems to be back up but they now have a blocked list and lemmy.blahaj.zone is on it. Seems they defederated from us.

          Edit 2: hexbear is still not coming back up so I’ll report the post on this account and ask the mods to delete it, sorry for any discomfort I caused you

          All is forgiven 😉

        • @BluJay320
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          410 months ago

          Uninvolved 3rd party, but I just wanna commend your thoughtfulness here

        • Aesthesiaphilia
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          410 months ago

          OH whew thank you, I thought it was just my VPN that had gotten blocked. I wasn’t able to see any of the hexbear links.

        • Lols [they/them]
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          310 months ago

          iirc, deleting the post from hexbear would not have done anything, defederation affects any interaction with blahaj

          • First Majestic Comet
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            110 months ago

            At the time it was still federated with our site, not anymore though, lemmy.blahaj.zone is now their first entry on the block list.

      • Aesthesiaphilia
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        510 months ago

        I had a blahaj person make a similar response to a message of mine a few weeks ago, before hexbear was even on the radar. I just rolled my eyes and may have sent some sort of “wow, what a dumb take” response or something.