• hazel
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      21 days ago

      Hypothetically, if someone’s more like a 5 and always on the verge of a meltdown… Like do I– do they get 50% care, love and understanding?

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        21 days ago

        No, why would anybody do or think such a thing? It’s not based on the bullshit measurement system of ‘attractiveness’ based on bullshit beauty standards.

        It’s based on caring about other people. Though yes, we should have explained that better, we guess.

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          21 days ago

          I was only kidding 😳

          I don’t care for numeric scales of prettiness either.

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              21 days ago

              Please don’t assume everyone or everymany can understand all jokes in text, thanks.

              There’s a reason tone tags exist after all, as an accessibility tool for just this kind of situation.

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                  20 days ago

                  Please be more clear with that in the future, as your exclusion of “to me” came across as saying it was, or should have been, obvious to everyone or everymany. Thanks!

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            20 days ago

            Beauty isn’t a constant, it’s a function of the person observing, the basic interest of both parties, eagerness for a relationship, and the respective sexualities:

            B(O)=O*b_i*E*s