Closeted transfem person here who’s Closeted because I want to become independent and get my own stable place to live before I come out.

I just had a few questions and wanted to ask them in one post instead of multiple posts

• Closeted transfem women pre physical transition who are also lesbian, for those of you that do feel this how do you deal with that wierdness that you feel when calling yourself lesbian and identifying as lesbian even though you look down and see a male body?
• To Transfem women with autism, I’m also on the spectrum. Is there anything I should know?
• Closeted Transfem women still living with parents, how do I secretly be feminine without my parents finding out
• Transfem women who moved out of their hometown to a more progressive city, What steps did you take? I currently don’t like my hometown because of its voting demographics favouring the political party equivalent here in Australia that mirrors right wingers & terrible people from america and my local crime watch group on Facebook which has a large amount of my hometowns population in it has a percentage of awful members in it
• Closeted transfem women who can’t go to see therapists due to living with parents, how do you self manage your mental health and self therapy yourself