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  • StarlightDustEnglish
    8·
    il y a 1 jour

    Aww Smorty! You just unlocked a very distant memory for me.

    In my last winter “boymoding”, I always wore a scarf. I had so much overwhelming dysphoria that I didn’t know where to even start. I guess that I thought my Adam’s apple was one of those things. I don’t even remember if I even had much of one; I don’t have enough photos from back then to check.

    Honestly, back then I was kinda clueless because I didn’t have the kind of friends that I needed or the initiative to choose the right steps for me.

    • Smorty [she/her]OPEnglish
      7·
      il y a 1 jour

      yisyis thads me rn… frens wud rlli change stuff around ~ ~ ~

      but noooooo… sadli no

      • StarlightDustEnglish
        6·
        il y a 1 jour

        Aww, love. I’m sure you will make some soon. See if there is an LGBT social group near you, I really came out of my shell at mine.

        • Smorty [she/her]OPEnglish
          8·
          il y a 1 jour

          ur right… i shud focus on thad… but what if im still uncomf cuz the peeps r way diffnt from me…

          • StarlightDustEnglish
            4·
            il y a 1 jour

            It takes time to get to know people and you will probably never know anyone who is really that much the same as you, even if you do have a lot in common. I don’t really do it anymore, because I’m generally quite confident anyway, but I found that the whole thing of “fake it til you make it” really helped me along.

          • i_dont_want_toEnglish
            1·
            il y a 24 heures

            I’m friends with a lot of people that are very different from me! I am a racial minority as well as queer with niche interests, so finding people like me is a challenge.

            However, finding like-minded people is not as hard. I know many people of many different backgrounds that I get along with really well. I can talk about my struggles with my own queer identity with a lot of my friends and I am understood (or just heard), even if their struggle is different from mine.

            It gets easier with practice to be comfortable around people that are different from you.

            • Smorty [she/her]OPEnglish
              2·
              il y a 23 heures

              well i mean… its not lik i nevr had frens… i kno whad a fren is.

              currntli theres jus no way to mek any (especially nt any female peeps…)