For those who haven’t seen it before, the flag pictured is the Queerian flag! Queerians are primarily or exclusively attracted to other queer people. This can be an identity all it’s own or a modifier (i.e. queerian bisexual).
For me, I guess it comes with the territory of being nonbinary. It’s just hard to imagine someone who isn’t queer understanding the weirdness of my relationship to gender. Even though I tend to refer to myself as a woman, I would legitimately have an easier time being attracted to a gay man than a straight one. It doesn’t really make sense to me, but at least there’s a word for it 🤷♀️
Oh wow you just described exactly the same experience as me lol. Maybe it is an enby thing
I did have a friend once describe themselves as “if you think I’m attractive, you’re gay”
Honestly it’s a vibe
with my ex fiance it was easy for me to find other bisexuals because for whatever reason, almost everyone who was into her vibe was SUPER bi