I think it’s cute. I’m cishet so don’t have authority here but I do think the joking about it is fine because this particular joke usually comes from a place of understanding, as opposed to the attack helicopter joke that’s clearly made from a place of ignorance and othering.
It’s like Jewish comedians making fun of themselves vs what nazis think a “joke” about Jewish people is.
“Oh yes?” hides our names behind our back “you don’t say.” “Interesting…”
I think it’s cute. I’m cishet so don’t have authority here but I do think the joking about it is fine because this particular joke usually comes from a place of understanding, as opposed to the attack helicopter joke that’s clearly made from a place of ignorance and othering.
It’s like Jewish comedians making fun of themselves vs what nazis think a “joke” about Jewish people is.