• Of the Air (cele/celes)
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    8 days ago

    We understand this might be a joke but in case it’s worth saying: Nobody owes anyone physical intimacy. If you think they do, you might be entitled.

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      thanks for sayin this bc decade ago now had a woman i was dating try and blame me for not wanting to be going steady by doing this type of thing…young autistic me had no words to convey the audhd hyperfocus and poly tendencies I was feeling so misunderstood about.

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        Sure, we are happy to! We have had our fair share of similar situations. But we learned and now we are much better off in relationships with people who love us for us and not for what we can provide them with.