• prole
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    Or, I dunno, maybe you should re-read this thread without the bizarre condescension that you seem to be adding yourself. Nothing I said was pretentious or condescending, and the fact that you’re behaving this way says more about you than me.

    I didn’t even bring up the fact that you apparently watched a film that you seemingly despise “multiple times.” That’s kind of weird, dude.

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      I watched it multiple times because in a democratic household, I occasionally lose the vote for what we watch, and in the interest of family unity, i accept my fate.

      I don’t think you know what condescension is. I am not trying to show my superiority in undetstanding art, i would like people who are afraid of art because of the sense of being judged to ignore the snooty gatekeepers, and learn how wonderful it is - while not dumbing it down at the same time.

      Over my lifetime, i have helped many people learn to see art without fear of humiliation. I didn’t do that by being condescending and pretentious, and insisting they see art my a specific way. I did it by being welcoming and encouraging them to embrace their own opinions as valid, and not tell them that they have “a strange view of films.” That’s gate-keeping behavior, and i always push back against it. That doesn’t make me condescending, just the opposite.