I’m sorry I’m so sad and I don’t have any friend to whom I can come out and I HATE SEEING MYSELF IN REFLECTIONS 😭😭😭

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    what country? I’ve heard there is an organization called the rainbow railroad that helps people escape certain places

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      From Croatia, and while laws are not necessarily transphobic (I think I can still transition) society still is especially in smaller towns

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          I did, ever since I was child I always wanted to go somewhere where no one knows me and live life as a woman, but right now I can’t go because I go to university and plan to finish it and maybe find job in food industry somewhere outside.

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        I feel you, I live in the South in the U.S. in one of the most transphobic states. I was terrified to come out, but it ended up going much better than I expected. For the most part people just didn’t care, and the worst I got were stares usually from older or hyper-masculine men.

        EDIT: this made me think that a lot of that fear was oversized, more in my head than reality. Transphobic violence is real, but is mostly targeted against poor trans women of color.

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          America is kinda weird like that where being a “freak” is almost seen as cool by everyone, but there’s still mad bigotry. i really don’t know how else to explain it, but there’s a live and let live attitude where people just want everyone to leave each other the fuck alone

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          poor trans women of color

          The more of these words apply to you, the worse it is:

          1. poor
          2. trans
          3. woman
          4. of color
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            it really do be bad - though obviously violence exists against all LGBT+ identities, by the numbers it hits trans women of color the hardest, and these women are more likely to be sex workers, more likely to contract HIV, and more likely to be victims of crime. Women in general are at greater risk of being a victim of violent crime.