i mean feel free to voice your graceless, ignorant, self-important takes on the issues of a minority group you don’t belong to all you like, that’s your prerogative. but getting indignant about it when you’re called on it and eventually shown the door is infantile. grow up and take some responsibility for yourself man, you’re disrespecting yourself as much as anybody else.
if “bro respect yourself more than this” lands as an attack, and your go-to response is to signal how “hard” you are, you have deeper problems than being ignorant about trans care.
oh shit i better write that down so i can bring it up to my therapist.
“called cis guy’s weirdly specific opinion about trans care ‘ignorant’ and his outsized vocal indignance at gentle well-meaning critique ‘infantile’, encouraged him to do better for his own sake <- IS THIS NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR?”
i mean feel free to voice your graceless, ignorant, self-important takes on the issues of a minority group you don’t belong to all you like, that’s your prerogative. but getting indignant about it when you’re called on it and eventually shown the door is infantile. grow up and take some responsibility for yourself man, you’re disrespecting yourself as much as anybody else.
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if “bro respect yourself more than this” lands as an attack, and your go-to response is to signal how “hard” you are, you have deeper problems than being ignorant about trans care.
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oh shit i better write that down so i can bring it up to my therapist.
“called cis guy’s weirdly specific opinion about trans care ‘ignorant’ and his outsized vocal indignance at gentle well-meaning critique ‘infantile’, encouraged him to do better for his own sake <- IS THIS NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR?”
did i miss anything there?
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