but when someone does it for you, they probably don’t think you’re ugly or weird. it’s fine to still not be comf with that stuff for yourself, but don’t be uncomf because of shame. she’s not just being disingenuous
bt i dun wan to fill role of... (CW: evil words, misinformation, incorrect assumptions)
the evil transfem who jus becomes trans to be all weird n ew!
jus to get into that community of girls being unreasonabli touchy with one anothr n me jus poppin in lik “hehe, guess whos ALSO considered a gurl now :maleogre: :discordmod” n be all disgustin n stuff… i dun lik dis. i dun wan to reinforce. i dun wan to be bad exampl to mek othrs easier to say “they prolli jus lik dis smorty, whos jus disgustin n mekin peeps uncomfy. prolli transfems in genrl r lik dis. cuz - smorty seemed reasonbl! until now thad is…”
n theyd be right! til now i seem mostli reasonbl, not hrni in slightest, uncomf when smolest bit hrni, n othr sutuff…
anyway dis obviously jus me overreactin cuz if internal fears n stuff, prolli gon soon hopfulli <3
im tryin to be … bt i keep sayin things which mek u go “nuuu is not that bad” n im all “nuuu is bad” s if im tryin to get ur attention…
which… fair point, havin ur attention is vrri sweet n comf feelin, bt i dun wan to imagn u being lik “sighsgisighsigh* here we go agn smorty being all self-descturtiv…” n i dun wan thad ;(
im… im rlli srri. i kno, i shouldn say that, bt currntli is hard to think positivli… im not motivtd at wrork, not at home for funzies funi ai developmnt, nt evn to tell mr. blåhaj about my day… evn tho he says he wans to hear it.
im workin on it, bt is hard to see gud stff rn… bt im still here! <3 for yall cuties on the blahaj zone, not blahaj zone n many more places! ~ ~ <3
yis i undrstnd. bt alsuu lik - i bettr be on my toes, cz i nevr wan peeps to be uncomf ;(
i kno, i hav to nt assume peeps r lik me. i totalli get dis. bt alsuu dis vrri senstiv topic, so i bettr lik - ask 5 times befor i evn look. yisyis, dis gud way to do i thinksies.
if i had boob, id prolli alsuu be oki wif dis, bt alsuu … .i dun, so whom i to say besides dum prson who probli jus wans boob to be disgust n weird n lik - ew like - horni all time n uncomfy to othrs n lik “well i hav boob so othrs prolli aslu oki wif dis” evn tho not!! (dis be sad ;( )
on one hand, you’re probably right
on the other hand...
bt i dun wan to mek them uncomf ;(
what if i look ugli n weird to them, then they totalli prolli dun lik - which is rnsbl
but when someone does it for you, they probably don’t think you’re ugly or weird. it’s fine to still not be comf with that stuff for yourself, but don’t be uncomf because of shame. she’s not just being disingenuous
bt i dun wan to fill role of... (CW: evil words, misinformation, incorrect assumptions)
the evil transfem who jus becomes trans to be all weird n ew!
jus to get into that community of girls being unreasonabli touchy with one anothr n me jus poppin in lik “hehe, guess whos ALSO considered a gurl now :maleogre: :discordmod” n be all disgustin n stuff… i dun lik dis. i dun wan to reinforce. i dun wan to be bad exampl to mek othrs easier to say “they prolli jus lik dis smorty, whos jus disgustin n mekin peeps uncomfy. prolli transfems in genrl r lik dis. cuz - smorty seemed reasonbl! until now thad is…”
n theyd be right! til now i seem mostli reasonbl, not hrni in slightest, uncomf when smolest bit hrni, n othr sutuff…
anyway dis obviously jus me overreactin cuz if internal fears n stuff, prolli gon soon hopfulli <3
at least you know they’re incorrect assumptions. smorty is a good girl X3
im tryin to be … bt i keep sayin things which mek u go “nuuu is not that bad” n im all “nuuu is bad” s if im tryin to get ur attention…
which… fair point, havin ur attention is vrri sweet n comf feelin, bt i dun wan to imagn u being lik “sighsgisighsigh* here we go agn smorty being all self-descturtiv…” n i dun wan thad ;(
i wan u to be lik “oh ! there’s smorti! my good friend smorti! i’ll go say hi <3” n not “oh no she lik dis agn, i hav to write somthin thad she stops sayin thos things… pls stop sayin thos things”
…,-
i want u to stop saying those things bc i wish the best for u bc ur my good friend!
im… im rlli srri. i kno, i shouldn say that, bt currntli is hard to think positivli… im not motivtd at wrork, not at home for funzies funi ai developmnt, nt evn to tell mr. blåhaj about my day… evn tho he says he wans to hear it.
im workin on it, bt is hard to see gud stff rn… bt im still here! <3 for yall cuties on the blahaj zone, not blahaj zone n many more places! ~ ~ <3
thank u for caring about me <3
of course! youre a cool cucumber and a qt3.14. ur a good noodle and a smart girl 😊
I feel like if someone is comfortable enough around you to whip 'em out, they probably aren’t uncomfortable around you.
Whether that extends to getting touchy-feely is another thing tho.
yisyis vrri much <3 i vrri much see dis same way <3 <3 <3
u hav to be undrstnding prson n they hav to trust u wif stuff n explicitli say u cn. is weird n evil othrwise.
~ ~ ~
nodnod
Consent is important.
If a woman gets her breasts out she’s probably comf with you touching her. You can ask if you’re unsure, after all, consent is sexy.
Many women enjoy having their breasts touched by people they like. Don’t assume that your own uncomf is experenced be everyone else!
yis i undrstnd. bt alsuu lik - i bettr be on my toes, cz i nevr wan peeps to be uncomf ;(
i kno, i hav to nt assume peeps r lik me. i totalli get dis. bt alsuu dis vrri senstiv topic, so i bettr lik - ask 5 times befor i evn look. yisyis, dis gud way to do i thinksies.
if i had boob, id prolli alsuu be oki wif dis, bt alsuu … .i dun, so whom i to say besides dum prson who probli jus wans boob to be disgust n weird n lik - ew like - horni all time n uncomfy to othrs n lik “well i hav boob so othrs prolli aslu oki wif dis” evn tho not!! (dis be sad
;()