i feel so bad, they (19nb) had a bf already but they liked me too and tried to pursue me when his bf didn’t give confirmation. then they felt bad and stopped talking to me as much, because they couldn’t hang out w/o him knowing.
because they liked me, they made me feel loved and would say they were gonna do all these romantic things with me, until they broke up today because their bf didn’t like it. and he doesn’t understand why i’m upset because “i liked him first! i liked him before you, he’s my first choice!!” idc. ik you’re dating, that’s not why i’m upset, and you don’t have to keep talking abt your bf whenever i mention something. i know.
if u don’t get the ok from your partner, do not pursue other ppl while dating them please 🙏
Likewise do not pursue people that go over their partners wishes and open up their relationship without consent. That’s cheating and if you actually end up together it is very likely that you’re gonna get cheated on and your consent on such things will probably be disrespected.
I’d recommend to take this as a learning experience and am sorry that it happened to you. I know that if I crush on someone I’d probably go against the things I preach as well but that’s unhealthy.