she’s just not a very active person online. when she is, shes only active in group chats with her friends.

usually, she talks about video games, and is actually offline because she plays video games almost all the time.

is there any way to salvage the relationship? she’s too focused on her interests to be interested in mine, and like I said, is almost always playing games so we barely talk aside from: “hi ❤️” “Hi sweetie ❤️” “hru??” “Good, just playing games, you?” “good :)) im listening to music” and then the conversation ends because she doesn’t message first and is busy with the other stuff.

(i have tried talking to her and she says she’s usually busy. shes either genuinely busy, busy with games, or in a bad mood and doesn’t feel like talking [sad/tired])

  • drbollocksOP
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    2 days ago

    i have, she says she’s sorry but then continues

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      2 days ago

      Okay, what I hear you saying is that you want more out of this relationship. More attention, more interaction, more time together, more connection. She, on the other hand, seems to be happy by herself and doesn’t try to meet your needs, or just makes empty promises that she doesn’t keep.

      I don’t think it can go on like that. You would forever have to live with your needs not being met, hoping for a change that doesn’t come.