I realized I don’t really care how people refer to me, it feels a bit weird if it’s not a he/she/they, I feel the same way for all of them like they can refer to me, does that mean I fall under the gender spectrum? or imply it? what other things could lead to me finding a label that describes me if I fall under the spectrum. I mean, I am still thinking about it, and I might be or might not be, but i am kind of lost so I just want to mainly focus on the fact I am comfertable with any pronouns to give me some basic understanding. So id like to hear your thoughts on using any/all pronouns and transness.
Right but there is a difference between identifying as agender (knowing you lack a gender, and preferring not to be referred to by a gender, etc.) and just feeling apathetic about what pronouns are used. The indifference could be caused by an agender identity, but it could be caused by something else.
I suppose the reason behind preferences can vary wildly
yeah, agreed - and being agender would certainly be one of those reasons