She acknowledged that I did talk to her about it beforehand, but hasn’t been able to properly process it yet.

We’re OK, I’m just venting.

  • i_dont_want_to
    2·
    7 days ago

    I also have bra washing suggestions! (I have some executive function issues, so I try to share my tips.)

    My partner does what you do, because she doesn’t wear any underthings with foam or wires and she hasn’t found that method wears them out.

    I used to put my bras in the washing machine, but the underwire would always cause some sort of issue. (I also love my underwire bras… They keep everything in place better than without.)

    I have this little dish tub I put mine in, and I clean using this soap called “Soak.” No scrubbing, I just dump it in there, swirl a little and wait like 15 minutes. I then squeeze out the water (gently!) and hang to dry. It’s super easy and helped me keep everything clean and in good condition.

    • klemptor@startrek.website
      2·
      7 days ago

      I used to put my bras in the washing machine, but the underwire would always cause some sort of issue.

      Put them in a mesh bag and use the delicate cycle! Then lay flat to dry.

      • Spacehooks@reddthat.comEnglish
        3·
        7 days ago

        I Iike bras hanging on the side of the laundry bag so I don’t dump them in the machine right away like the rest of the clothes. Do the same with anything else that needs mesh bag. I’m not sorting laundry! Mesh bag makes it easier for me to find what doesn’t go in dryer too.