traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.caEnglish · 1 day ago

femboys and egg culture

traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.caEnglish · 1 day ago

How to get out of an uncomfortable egg culture situation with this one simple trick.

Real talk: Calling people eggs is a violation of the egg prime directive, and is considered invalidating as you are trying to say that a person is not the gender they identify as, that their identity is invalid. Don’t call people eggs, like ever, it’s extremely uncool.

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Agreed. It’s important to just listen to people and use the labels they identify with. Forcing labels onto others isn’t cool.

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