Everyone is different. Some people who are non binary but lean/present as feminine might use feminine words, but others I’ve seen use the masculine because they think modifying the grammar is complicated.

I personally use the gender-neutral modified language, like using elle in Spanish.

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    3 hours ago

    In French, the plural they is the masculine ils for mixed gender groups, and only the feminine elles for groups that are exclusively feminine. On is a singular gender neutral form of they often used in situations with unknown gender.

    I would use on for singular and ils for plural when talking about a non-binary person because that seems the most reasonable application of the language as I understand it.

    However as a non-native speaker I would defer to whatever native speakers do. Can’t say I know what the established best practice is.