I have problems with people who abstained. The hard thing is, how do you change voter behavior?

  • I’ve been trying to answer this all day, and struggling to do so. I think it’s because I use living in a deep red state to excuse my decision so that people aren’t allowed to be as mad at me. But I’d also like to think that I’m principled enough to have made the same decision in a swing state, even though that’s not the answer that people want to hear.

    My hope was that by outspokenly refusing to vote for Harris unless she pledged to withhold weapons from Israel, if enough people did so, she might actually adopt that stance to earn our vote. Proceeding to then vote for her anyway, despite consistently implying she wouldn’t do anything different than Biden, would have felt… idk the right word- hypocritical?

    I get shat on for putting principles above practicality but, if everyone did that, we might live in a much better world. Though I’ve heard pragmatists say the exact opposite about idealists.

    Voting at all is already an activity that is incongruent with my values, as it legitimizes a system that I believe in dismantling.

    I guess to answer your question, I probably would’ve voted for Harris if she pledged to withhold weapons from Israel, or, if in a swing state, if I happened to be temporarily convinced of the utilitarian perspective, but it would probably have to be within like an hour of voting, and be disgusted with myself after

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      It sounds like you had similar hopes with me and other Harris voters. It does stand to fact that you did do something more significant than a big number of 2020 blue voters by actually showing up to the booth. It also sounds like the emotional or symbolic nature of your vote has a higher value for you than for some people.

      I do apologize that my questioning was causing some distress or time loss. With that in mind feel free to ignore my follow-up query:

      • Was 2024 the first time you voted 3rd party or protested the D-R binary?
      • At what point in time did you decide you were going to protest/third party vote (and if there was a “trigger moment,” that would be enlightening)?
      • How long has Gaza/apartheid Israel been in, say, your top three concerns when voting (decades, years, months…)?
      • Was 2024 the first time you voted 3rd party or protested the D-R binary?

        In 2020, I intended to vote for Hawkins, and then within an hour of voting, I was temporarily convinced of the utilitarian perspective, and I regretted it the last four years

        At what point in time did you decide you were going to protest/third party vote (and if there was a “trigger moment,” that would be enlightening)?

        I don’t remember a specific first time, but regularly throughout Biden’s presidency. I said to myself, “I can’t believe I fucking voted for that guy- I’m not voting for these people again”

        How long has Gaza/apartheid Israel been in, say, your top three concerns when voting (decades, years, months…)?

        Since it became clear that the US was enabling a genocide, in late 2023