• Kit
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    11 days ago

    My workplace’s LGBT resource group is meeting soon. Hoping for good news. I’m wondering why I still live in the US at this point - I have no living family or close friends here and work in an in-demand field. May as well sell my house and move somewhere that I’m welcome.

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      11 days ago

      I would suggest you look into it, at the very least! Leaving was the best decision I ever made.

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        11 days ago

        May I ask what country you went to? The options are staggering.

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          11 days ago

          New Zealand! It’s not perfect, but with a population of only 5 million, we do a lot better taking care of each other. I live on the south island, so it’s even smaller. We have a fairly conservative govt right now, just like most places the economic downturn encouraged a right shift, but the culture here has been very progressive historically, and the people still are. I feel much more hopeful pushing back on hate here than I did in Texas, and it feels like it’s impactful as opposed to in the US where it feels like pushing back against a river.

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            11 days ago

            NZ is actually at the top of my list! Would you go as far as recommending it for a US expat?

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              11 days ago

              Absolutely. It’s not a utopia, but it’s a huge step up from the US.