Edit I’m just gonna delete this soon. I posted it and made most of my comments while angry and looking for blood. yea a lot of cringe stuff got said on that post but I don’t think my post is contributing anything to the sub other than anger, and possibly driving people away. Sorry to the people I snapped at, I hope yall have a good night🐕

The comments are full of people saying transphobic shit and op doubling down on his “making your trans partner feel dysphoric is fine” shit. He’ll that pic was a re-upload from one of the mods here. What the fuck!!! This is fucking 196 why are we out here defending blatant transphobia? People are in there calling trans people karens with a persecution complex, there’s tons of defense of treating trans men like shit, “allies” telling trans people they’re overreacting, all kinds of inexcusable shit. If this is how lemmy 196 is gonna be I hope this place crashes and burns

  • Good Girl [she/they]
    7•1 year ago

    Do you always require context to be written out or is it just in this instance?

    To the question “…Straight guy… are you attracted to women… or to femininity?”

    OP answered

    I like boobs and pussy That’s the definition of “straight guy” right?

    and then answered the follow up question

    Would you date a trans guy

    with

    pre-transition? Sure I don’t like dicks though

    If straight men are attracted to women and OP claims to be straight but is okay with pre-transition trans men, he doesn’t consider them men.

    Is that plain enough for you or are you going to keep flailing around for yet another way to paint anyone who takes issue with blatant transphobia as irrational?

    This is also entirely before the conversation about the problems surrounding “women = pussy+boobs and men = penis”.

    • Lemdee
      10•1 year ago

      Ah, so you’re missing a ton of additional context to their views or choosing to actively ignore it. That’s fine. Means our conversation is over since that’s not a position I have any chance of breaking through to. Not that I thought I had any chance in the first place. I guess these rebuttals were more for the lurkers since I knew this was a brick wall conversation from the onset. If you want to be angry at everything then you’re certainly welcome to, it’s your life. Best of luck with that though.