I transitioned ages ago and I’m recently out of a long term relationship. I’ve been trying to get back into dating, but even when I specify “masc for masc” all of the gay guys I meet are too feminine for my taste. I’ve been feeling a bit doomed, even sometimes questioning if I should have transitioned in the first place because it would be so easy to find an ideal partner if I hadn’t, but the idea of being anyone but my true self is preposterous. Can any other guys relate to this? Any dating tips or specific dating app recommendations?
USA if it helps.
Super random, but check out a climbing gym if that’s something you’re willing to try. Go on an LGBTQ+ meetup night. Honestly one of the highest densities of masc queer folk you’ll find. To a point where as a more fem/fluid for fem/fluid person I struggle finding people I’m super in to.
Ironically a buddy of mine goes to our local climbing gym all the time, and has been trying to get me to join. I’ll give it a shot! Thanks!