i have thoughts and opinions, who wouldn’t? but that’s not relevant. whether i get it isn’t relevant. what i think or opine about it isn’t relevant. the bar isn’t getting it, the bar is accept people. the bar is not scrutinizing and making judgment calls about what you think should or shouldn’t be a valid gender or pronoun, or worse spinning a narrative where this person doesn’t really deserve to have their identity acknowledged.

This should be framed! That’s it exactly!