• AdaA
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    6 days ago

    No. The person you are referring to uses “drag” as pronouns, but is also ok with they/them.

    People who can’t simply use either of those options, and insist on getting in to a discussion about what identities they think are valid are the folk getting banned.

    If you simply ignore the users whose pronouns you find challenging, or use their pronouns and avoid starting/continuing discourse offering your personal opinions about whether or not someone elses identity is valid, there are no bans.

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      avoid starting/continuing discourse offering your personal opinions about whether or not someone elses identity is valid, there are no bans.

      The OP here is literally starting discourse offering their personal opinions about whether or not someone else’s identity is valid.

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        2 days ago

        nah, i’m blazing right past that and accepting everyone’s identity as valid, the opinion is it’s hilarious and entertaining watching pedants twist themselves in knots to absolve themselves of fundamentally queerphobic and exclusionary takes.

        you can equate “accept everyone” with “scrutinize and judge” if you like though, it’s very helpful when people wave their red flags openly.