Description: A meme in two pictures and two text boxes. The upper image shows an anime-style character, joyous and smiling, surrounded by twinkling stars. The text next to them says: “You realize you’re trans.”
The lower image shows the same character, staring in despair, surrounded by darkness. The text next to them says: “You realize you’re trans.”

    • Smorty [she/her]
      5·
      2 months ago

      I feel being isogender is reasonably. I have not heard of it before, but it seems like it’s just not decisively male or female, while still swinging more to their assigned sex at birth.

      Am I understanding this right?

    • InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works@sh.itjust.works
      1·
      2 months ago

      Hey you’re not alone.
      Although I won’t pretend to fully understand who you are, I’m not even sure I do my own self.

      I had never heard of isogender, but kinda relate to.

      I’m not trans, but I don’t feel cis either.
      I have both masculine and feminine sides, although they’re not exactly clearly defined, it’s definitely there.
      I don’t feel gender fluid either, in the sense that I’m always somewhat all over the place like this, which is something that doesn’t really change.

      I guess isogender is not mutually exclusive with other labels, although I mostly dislike labeling myself, which feels arbitrarily restrictive.
      I guess, in a way, maybe that makes me somewhat agender, in the sense that I feel like the concept of gender isn’t much relevant to who I am as a person, although it’s also not absent either.

      I don’t really know how to describe this, but labeling myself always felt weird.
      It’s like people expect me to fit on a horizontal male-female axis, but instead of being in a single spot I’m a Jackson Pollock painting stop-motioned mid-throw in zero-G.